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To Marry Or Not?


 Marriage of Convience Part One
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Well I've been married for twenty-sex days now. For the most part this marriage thing is working out. We've sent wedding announcements to our friends and family. Were planning a wedding cake reception for our families to attend. My mother isn't currently speaking to me because she didn't approve of me marrying Matt. She thinks it was a mistake. And I guess I can't blame her. She knows I'm not in love with Matt. My family was upset that we got married so quickly. When I pictured getting married I always thought I would have a big wedding and that I would marry a man I was madly in love with. We still haven't consummated the marriage. Matt wants too I know. I know he loves and wants me, but I still feel no attraction to him. I'm in between a rock and hard place and there's no escape!
Posted by Desari at 1:59 PM - 11 Comments   Add a Comment  
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Hun you are being really brave, do not worry about what anybody thinks its about what you you want.... good luck ... I will keep you in my prayers & thoughts..... marriage is hard at the best of times....  
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by Tina_sa (PM , CC ) on Tuesday September 25, 2007 @ 2:24 PM




Things always have a way of working themselves out. There is a lot of good about this man or you would have never agreed to marry him at all. You never know you may one day realize that he is exactly what you want then again you may not, but at least you can always make the best of the situation you are in. Sex is not the most important thing in a relationship. It sounds like you two have a lot of mutual respect for each other, just keep that friendship going.  
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by stungungurl (PM , CC ) on Friday September 28, 2007 @ 11:01 PM




Ooooh girl I hope it all works out. It doesn't sound like you married for the right reasons and you might end up hating him in the long run.  
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by Anonymous (PM , CC ) on Sunday September 30, 2007 @ 8:40 PM




wow, that's pretty intense. I got married to someone for all the wrong reasons, and it turned bitter. However, you both are adults and friends, so surely you guys will be able to work it out with time and dedication.

Take Care, and I hope you get outta that in between spot soon.
 
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by raspberrytoast (PM , CC ) on Sunday September 30, 2007 @ 8:44 PM




Thank you for commenting on my blog!  
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by Hollywood (PM , CC ) on Monday October 1, 2007 @ 5:23 PM




Well Desari, im here for u and i wish u the best of luck with ur new hubby. Im sure everything will work out for u!!

Have a great day!!
 
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by Roxy_sa (PM , CC ) on Wednesday October 3, 2007 @ 9:55 AM




Sorry, but you married a wimp. He's your girl friend. How sad for you.
Your living a cartoon life. Steril, like plastic covers on a coutch.
It stays clean, but boring and shallow. Get out in the real world and meet someone that lights your fire. What are you ugly? Boring? Stupid? Did you give up on life? You have kids. Thats no excuse. There's someone out there for you and you must find them. Otherwise your life will ultimatly have no purpose. Love gives life purpose. Without it your just a stone. Or a plastic seat cover perserving an empty shell of a an existance. Go for it. You may lose, but if you don't try, you already have. |< << >> >|



 
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by St. Mick (PM , CC ) on Tuesday October 16, 2007 @ 4:57 AM




Desari:

"...twenty-sex days"?

Is that a typographical error?
 
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by Whit's Whittlings (PM , CC ) on Wednesday October 17, 2007 @ 8:03 PM




Desari,

This "being in love" is way over rated and besides that not substainable. If this man is someone you respect and care for, then be happy and ive your lives together. I live away from marriage but can appreciate that living with a companon has its benefits (and its drawbacks)

If you ever need to talk about your decision and choice to marry, I would happy to listen.

Geoff
 
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by Dorje Geoff (PM , CC ) on Friday October 19, 2007 @ 2:34 AM




Hi Desari, thank you for stopping by and saying hi. Wow, married your best friend. I am a firm believer in your mate also being your friend. I see so many people marrying who act like they don't even like each other. How sad is that? I pray it is working out for you. So many people marry for all the wrong reasons. My daughter's husbands are also their friends. My husband and I are also friends. We love being with one another and sharing our world with one another. So you have a plus in your marriage so many don't have. Take care, have a fabulous Friday and great weekend. Blessings, Karen  
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by RoieVanBib (PM , CC ) on Friday October 19, 2007 @ 12:58 PM




Hi Desari, Thankyou for stopping by my place. Oh my! if you have no physical attraction for this man, even if he is your best friend, then you should not stay married ~~~ but then this is only my opinion. Hmmm, maybe there are many more qualities that you love about him. Sex isn't everything, but is a big part of it. Blessings and good luck to you and KUDOS on raising your kids as a single Mom! ~Annie~  
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by Dreamer (PM , CC ) on Monday October 22, 2007 @ 8:33 PM


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

   
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